Off the Beaten Path

by Scott Noelle

As social animals, conformity is a natural part of our humanity. As creative beings, we all have a non-conformist streak as well. You have to resolve this apparent contradiction if you value personal growth beyond mainstream expectations.

The key is realizing that both conformity and non-conformity are driven by the same needs: security and connection. The difference is whether these needs are met from the outside in, or the inside out.

Improve Your Groove

Today, notice how you feel whenever your unconventional life choices become apparent to others. If you notice tension between what feels right in your heart and what “people” expect of you, remind yourself that staying connected to your inner truth is more empowering than conforming to social expectations.

And consider the possibility that if those “people” followed your example, their hearts might lead them to make similar choices.

As more and more people connect with their Authentic Power, they’re “conforming” in a way that allows for the paradoxical experience of unity in diversity.

Originally published on 2015-03-27
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